The good thing about burlap is that it is inexpensive.
The bad thing about burlap is — oh, where to begin?!
Burlap wears its flaws on its proverbial shirtsleeve, although I shudder to think how uncomfortable a burlap shirt would be.
It is coarse and crotchety, like an old man who has worked hard his whole life and never been been appreciated for a single thing he has done.
It frays easily and often.
It does not like to be straightened. Lesson #1 in 4-H sewing decades ago included straightening the fabric. Burlap is just ornery enough to say no. It sort of looks like it is willing to comply, and then, BAM, an in-your-face refusal when the cutting begins.
Despite all that, burlap is quite lovable — especially if you’re partial to cantankerous types.
I’m sitting here, staring at various burlaps, trying to think how I can get along with them. How can I coax this rough piece of fabric into something beautiful?
In my first attempt, I lined it with a cheery cotton print. The burlap lost its burlap-ness. It was like taking a hobo and dressing him in a business suit. What makes a hobo appealing is his relatively carefree life, hopping trains, bumming food, answering to no one, but a businessman has to present himself just so, and answer to all sorts of people.
No, I was glad the lined burlap cone was nixed. It was too incongruous.
My next attempt was a simple burlap sack. Simple. Hah! To make a casing for a ribbon to go through was nearly impossible. And then, I didn’t cut a long enough piece of ribbon. And then I kept wondering if jute would be better than ribbon. And then I just got mad at the whole darn thing because it refused to look like what I had pictured in my head.
I had an idea for my next attempt. I would work with the fray-happy fabric. I saw it on Pinterest.
Except… I’m pretty sure all those wonderful Pinterest ideas require fingers, and, as it turns out, I’m only equipped with thumbs. Ugh.
The more I fuddled around with the burlap, the more I saw this as life. Things don’t always turn out the way we hope. Plan A becomes Plan B becomes Plan C.
And still we remain hopeful. Still we try again.
[I decided to started searching the Ragtag Daily Prompt word in my draft folder so I could relook at some of the things written years ago. Today’s word was HOPEFUL — and this post came up. This post was originally written in August 2014 as we were getting ready for son #2’s wedding.]
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